Ubusanzwe umunsi wa Saint Valentin wizihizwa tariki ya 14 Gashyantare ku isi hose ufatwa nk’umunsi w’abakundana, uwo munsi ukaba uhurirana n’umunsi Kiliziya Gatolika izirikana ku buzima bwa Mutagatifu Valantini.
Ariko kuri uwo munsi wa Saint Valentin (Valentine’s Day) hari ibintu byinshi bitandukanye bikunze kuvugwa, ariko si ko byose aribyo, kandi si nako abantu bose babyumvikanaho.
Benshi rero mu bakobwa kuri uyu munsi ntabwo baba biyumvisha ko hari ibyo umuntu yakora ngo agukure mu byo urimo gutekereza maze akwihere izindi ntekerezo, ariko bibaho kandi bigakorwa uko wowe utabiteguraga.
Nibwo rero akenshi usanga abakobwa bakoze imibonano mpuzabitsina itatekerejweho kuko baba babahinduye ibitekerezo byabo.
Dore amwe mu mayeri abahungu bakunze gukoresha bigatuma abakobwa babemerera gukora imibinano mpuzabitsina batabiteguye.
Icyubahiro kirenze urugero
Ni kenshi uzasanga umukobwa w’imyaka 20 ari kumwe n’umuhungu w’imyaka irenga mirongo itatu ariko ugasanga umuhugungu yamwubashye aramukarabya mu ntoki akamutamika akamusiga amavuta akamwambika inkweto ndetse benshi bakanazihanagura ariko kugira ngo amwereke ko ari umuntu udasanzwe.
Ibyo rero bituma umukobwa atangira kwirekura agatangira na we kumva agize impuhwe ku buryo iyo atangiye kuvuga aba ameze nk’ uwabuze umwuka.
Iyo rero mumaranye umwanya uhagije wisanga wamaze kugirana imibinano mpuzabitsina na we kandi utari wabiteguye.
Kukubwira amabanga
Ku nyungu ze umuhungu ashobora kukubwira byinshi akagera n’ aho akubitsa ibinga, rimwe na rimwe hari ibyo akubwira akubeshya ubundi akagira ibyo akubwiza ukuri ukagira ngo ni impuhwe yakugiriye kandi we afite icyo ashaka.
Ubwo rero ni cya gihe usanga umukobwa atangira kugira impuhwe kuko aba yumva nawe wamubwije ukuri agatangira koroshya mu mutwe wamubwira ibintu byose ukumva arabyikiriza nibitaribyo akavuga yego.
Umuhungu rero iyo abonye wabaye utyo ahita yicinya icyara kuko aba yageze ku ntego ye. Usanga kenshi abakobwa bameze batyo bakunda no kumva bababajwe nibyo bababwiye akenshi bakagira amaranga mutima n’amarira akaza agashiduka batangiye kumukoresha imibonano mpuza bitsina itateganyijwe.
Kurira (Gusuka amarira)
Hari igihe kigera umuhungu agakoresha amarira, akarira cyane kugira ngo umukobwa ubone ko ibyo umuhugngu arimo kuvuga ari ukuri kandi bimubabaje.
Icyo gihe umukobwa abona ko agomba ku guhoza no kumuguma hafi agatangira kukubaza icyo wifuza ngo akiguhe kuko abayumva agahinda ufite yakagufashamo.
Nibwo rero iyo umuhungu amusabye ko baryamana kubihakana biramugora cyane kuko aba yamaze kwemera ko icyo ari cyo cyose yakimukorera.
We aba yumva ko niba ubimusabye aribyo bishobora kumukiza ayo Marira n’ako gahinda afate kuburyo kubihakana bimugora cyane.
Akenshi usa nga mwene aba bakobwa bemera bagakora imibinano kugira ngo bakize amarira abahungu baba bafite imitima yoroshye kuburyo we aba yumva ko ntakindi yamukorera keretse icyo amusabye. Kuryamana nyine.
Kukwizeza ibitangaza
Yego Si bose, ariko benshi mu basore bakoresha ibinyoma iyo barimo gutereta, Usanga ashobora no kukwemerera kukugurira inzu kandi we atarayigurira.
Iyo rero abona ko nawe watangiye kwizera ibyo ari kukubwira uba umuhaye umwanya wo kongera kukwizeza ibitangaza byinshi.
Nyamara mubyo aba ari kukubwira usubije amaso inyuma ushobora gusanga nta nakimwe kizima kiba kirimo ahubwo biba ari uburyo bwo kugira ngo abone kuburyo bworoshye icyo ashaka kugeraho.
Akenshi rero iyo umukobwa wamaze kumufata neza wamuguyaguye maze ugatangira kumubwira ibyo wifuza kumukorera , nawe atangira kumva ko ari wowe nshuti kandi ko nawe ashobora kukwitura ibyo waba ushaka kuri we.
Nibwo rero usanga uryamanye n’umuhungu kandi mu buryo utateguye. Mwene aba bakobwa rero usanga ari babandi bakunda utuntu twiza kandi ntabushobozi bafite.iyo ugize icyo umwemerera niyo waba umubeshya aguha icyo ushaka cyose.
Imitoma (amagambo asize umunyu yuje uburyaraya
Iyi ni imwe munzira zikomeye zishobora gutuma umuhungu n’ undi uwariwe wese agukoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina itateganijwe. Gusa ariko ibi bihira bamwe bazi kuvuga imitoma itera umukobwa kunezererwa , ikamukura mubyo yatekerezaga yo ubwayo ikamuha ibyo atekereza kubera uburyo wabimubwiyemo ndetse n’amagambo wakoresheje.
Tubibutse ko kuri uyu munsi, abasore n’inkumi bakundana (couples) bahana impano zitandukanye ziganjemo impapuro zanditseho imitoma, n’indabo z’amaroza atukura ubusanzwe avuga urukundo rugurumana (passion).
Aha bivugwa ko buri mwaka, kuri Saint Valentin hoherezwa amakarita agera kuri miliyari imwe n’igice, muri yo 83.6% akaba atangwa n’abagore bayaha abo bakunda… Saint Valentin rero ikaba igwa mu ntege umunsi mukuru wa Noheli mu gutangwaho amakarita menshi.
Uko uyu munsi wa Saint Valentin wizihizwa ahantu hatandukanye:
Ubundi kera uyu munsi wafatwaga nk’uw’abaselibateri kurusha abakundana. Abasore n’abakobwa bakinaga umukino aho abakobwa bihishaga, maze abasore bakabashaka; iyo umusore yavumburaga umukobwa, bagombaga gushyingiranwa mbere y’uko umwaka urangira… Ibaze byari bitangaje!
Mu kinyejana cya 14, nibwo mu Bwongereza uwo munsi wafashwe nk’uw’urukundo koko, kuko bemeraga ko inyoni z’ingabo n’iz’ingore zihura (accouplement/mating) kuri uwo munsi…
Ku munsi wa Saint Valentin, bamwe mu bakirisitu bajya gusura ibisigazwa bye (reliques) ahantu hatandukanye mu Burayi;
Mu Bushinwa na Taiwan, kuva mu mwaka wa 1980 uyu munsi wa Saint Valentin urizihizwa cyane.
Mu Buyapani ho ntibiba bisanzwe! Kuri uwo munsi, abagore n’abakobwa bategetswe kuzanira abagabo n’abasore bakorana za chocolats zihenze.
Gusa mu Buyapani kuri 14 Werurwe abagabo nabo barishyura, bagaha abo bashiki babo umwenda, urukweto cyangwa ikindi gifite ibara ry’umweru kandi gihenze inshuro nibura 3 kurenza ya chocolat yaguriwe. Iyo tariki ya 14 Werurwe bayita “White Day”.
Uretse mu gihugu cya Muri Brésil ho bagira umunsi w’abakundana wihariye uba tariki 12 Kamena, ukaba witwa “dos namorados”; muri Colombia ho uba ku wa Gatandatu wa gatatu w’ukwa cyenda, ukaba witwa “dia del amor y amistad” (umunsi w’urukundo n’ubucuti).
Mu Rwanda naho, kuva mu mwaka wa 1998 uyu munsi witaweho cyane, kandi ugenda utera imbere umwaka ku mwaka, ndetse kuri ubu mu bo tubona nk’abanyeshuri bo muri za kaminuza baba aribo baboneka nk’abawizihiza kurusha abandi cyane ko benshi baba babyungukiyemo kwerekana ingufu z’aho urukundo rwabo rugera.
Ubwo twatemberaha hirya no hino mu Mujyi wa Kigali twaganire n’abantu batandukanye bagira icyo badutangariza kuri uyu munsi ndetse bagira n’iyo babwira abakunzi babo.
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